Monday, July 20, 2009

Being in God's wall-breaking business

Ephesians 2:11-22

Remember that at one time you Gentiles by birth, called "the uncircumcision" by those who are called "the circumcision" -- a physical circumcision made in the flesh by human hands-- remember that you were at that time without Christ, being aliens from the commonwealth of Israel, and strangers to the covenants of promise, having no hope and without God in the world. But now in Christ Jesus you who once were far off have been brought near by the blood of Christ. For he is our peace; in his flesh he has made both groups into one and has broken down the dividing wall, that is, the hostility between us. He has abolished the law with its commandments and ordinances, that he might create in himself one new humanity in place of the two, thus making peace, and might reconcile both groups to God in one body through the cross, thus putting to death that hostility through it. So he came and proclaimed peace to you who were far off and peace to those who were near; for through him both of us have access in one Spirit to the Father. So then you are no longer strangers and aliens, but you are citizens with the saints and also members of the household of God, built upon the foundation of the apostles and prophets, with Christ Jesus himself as the cornerstone. In him the whole structure is joined together and grows into a holy temple in the Lord; in whom you also are built together spiritually into a dwelling place for God.

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Three men married wives from different states.

The first man married a woman from Michigan . He told her that she was to do the dishes and house cleaning. It took a couple of days, but on the third day, he came home to see a clean house and dishes washed and put away.

The second man married a woman from Missouri . He gave his wife orders that she was to do all the cleaning, dishes and the cooking. The first day he didn't see any results, but the next day he saw it was better. By the third day, he saw his house was clean, the dishes were done and there was a huge dinner on the table.

The third man married a girl from TEXAS . He ordered her to keep the house cleaned, dishes washed, lawn mowed, laundry washed, and hot meals on the table for every meal. He said the first day he didn't see anything, the second day he didn't see anything but by the third day, some of the swelling had gone down and he could see a little out of his left eye, and his arm was healed enough that he could fix himself a sandwich and load the dishwasher.

This morning I want to continue to think with you about our reading from Ephesians.

Last week, as you’ll remember we looked at the opening words to Ephesians where the author lays out his thesis statement: “God destined us for adoption as God’s children through Jesus Christ.” We talked about how we know this simple Christian affirmation, but that many times it’s hard to move it from your head and into your heart. Then I gave you a bit of homework to do for the next month. To take a post it note and write “I am a beloved child of God” on it and place it on your bathroom mirror so it would be one of the first things you saw each morning.

I’ve been surprised by the conversations I’ve had with folks this week in person, over the phone, and via e-mail who have done this. How it has changed them. How they see other people differently and even helped out a few relationships!

It appears that our reading this morning from chapter two has to do with unity in the midst of diversity. The author of Ephesians isn’t stupid. He realizes that it doesn’t take long for people who live in community for very long to begin to fight and quarrel. People take sides on issues and draw lines in the sand. “Either you’re for us or you’re against us” we hear over and over again.

But we have an invitation in the midst of this. To realize that the lines we draw in the sand or the walls we put up might not be God’s. That making decisions about who’s in or who’s out aren’t really up to us, but are up to God.

I remember when I was sitting in front of the TV in 1989 as the Berlin Wall came down. It was amazing to see the looks on people’s faces as families who had been torn apart for years were suddenly reunited. It’s one of those events in my life that I’ll never forget. I knew that I was watching history. A wall that had been up for years as a sign of oppression and of keeping people apart was knocked down virtually overnight.

I think that’s exactly what is happening in our passage in Ephesians. God is telling us that the walls that divide us are really much smaller than we realize and that God would love to help us knock them down.

I believe being a Christian means following God’s lead in the wall breaking business. Standing up and being counted for the cause of justice whether you’re here at Church, in the workplace, a deputy to General Convention, or in the community. God calls us to knock down walls and barriers that prevent everyone from coming to the table.

I was especially proud of our church this week at General Convention when our church made the bold move to move forward by opening the office of bishop to any qualified candidate – regardless of sexual orientation. Watching this for me was like watching this passage from Ephesians be lived out in our contemporary world.

I’ve been amazed at the number of guests we have here at All Saints when I call to follow up with them who tell me that they came to visit an Episcopal Church because we include everyone. They don’t want to be a part of a church that excludes people based on race, gender, or sexual orientation. They want to be a part of a church that when it says “All are welcomed here” that all means all.

Let me tell you a story of what the other side of inclusion looks like. The side of exclusion.

A good friend of mine just retired from being the preaching professor at Candler School of Theology in Atlanta, GA. He grew up in Tennessee and each year he’d go back to his hometown at Christmas. He would visit his old friend Buck. Buck owned a café on the main street of town and he would always give Fred a cup of coffee and a piece of chess pie. One Christmas when Fred went in to get his coffee and pie, Buck said, “Come on, let’s go get a cup of coffee.” “What’s the matter?” asked Fred, “isn’t this a restaurant?” “I don’t know; sometimes I wonder,” Buck fired back.

Later, sitting across from Fred, Buck asked, “Did you see the curtain?” “Yes, Buck, I saw the curtain; I always see the curtain.” The curtain was in Buck’s café, separating the front half of the café from the back half. White folks came in the front of the café from the main street, but black folks came in from an alley behind the café. The curtain was there to separate. To separate white people from black people.

Buck looked up and said, “Fred, the curtain has got to come down.” “Good,” Fred replied, “Pull her down!” “That’s easy enough for you to say,” said Buck. “You come in once a year and tell me how to run my business.” “Then leave it up,” Fred countered. In personally agony, Buck said, “Fred, I take that curtain down, I lose my customers; I leave that curtain up, and I lose my soul!”

Buck was right, of course. Some curtains have to come down. Some curtains have to come down because if we leave them up we will lose our souls, no matter how many church customers we gain! The church of Jesus Christ simply must rip some curtains from top to bottom and dump them in the garbage.

The walls of exclusion whether based on gender, race, socioeconomic status, sexual orientation, or religion have to come down. We’ve got to begin looking at ourselves and each other as beloved sons and daughters of God. Amen.

The Rev'd Thomas S. Rogers, III

Associate Rector

All Saints Episcopal Church

Frederick, Maryland

Year B // Proper 11 Sermon

Link to audio: http://www.box.net/shared/3070vqo96a

God's Beloved Child

Ephesians 1:3-14

Blessed be the God and Father of our Lord Jesus Christ, who has blessed us in Christ with every spiritual blessing in the heavenly places, just as he chose us in Christ before the foundation of the world to be holy and blameless before him in love. He destined us for adoption as his children through Jesus Christ, according to the good pleasure of his will, to the praise of his glorious grace that he freely bestowed on us in the Beloved. In him we have redemption through his blood, the forgiveness of our trespasses, according to the riches of his grace that he lavished on us. With all wisdom and insight he has made known to us the mystery of his will, according to his good pleasure that he set forth in Christ, as a plan for the fullness of time, to gather up all things in him, things in heaven and things on earth. In Christ we have also obtained an inheritance, having been destined according to the purpose of him who accomplishes all things according to his counsel and will, so that we, who were the first to set our hope on Christ, might live for the praise of his glory. In him you also, when you had heard the word of truth, the gospel of your salvation, and had believed in him, were marked with the seal of the promised Holy Spirit; this is the pledge of our inheritance toward redemption as God's own people, to the praise of his glory.

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A preacher was making his rounds to his parishioners on his bicycle when 
he
 came upon a little boy trying to sell a lawn mower.


'I've been needing a lawn mower. How much do you want for it?' asked
the preacher.


'I just want enough money to go out and buy me a bike,' said the
 little boy.


After a moment of consideration, the preacher asked, 'Will you take
my bike in trade for it?'


The little boy asked if he could try it out first, and after riding the bike around a little while, 'Mister, you've got yourself a deal.'


The preacher took the mower and began to try to crank it. Pulling on the cord a few times with no response from the mower, the preacher called the little boy over,


'I can't get this mower to start.'


The little boy said, 'That's because you have to cuss at it to get it started.'


The preacher said to the little boy, 'I am a minister, and I cannot cuss. It has been so long since I have been saved, that I do not even remember how to cuss.'


The little boy looked at him happily and said, as he rode off, 'Just keep pullin' on that cord. It'll come back to ya.'

This morning I want to think with you about our reading from Ephesians. This opening paragraph in the letter of Ephesians is quite powerful and loaded. “God has blessed us in Christ with very spiritual blessing . . .” God destined us for adoption as God’s children through Jesus Christ.

These are words of comfort to us to let us know that God has a plan. God has a plan for each and every one of us and it’s a good plan. A plan of blessing. I believe our job is to live into that.

I don’t know why we have such a hard time believing that we are God’s sons and daughters. But how would our lives change if we really believed what we say week after week. You are God’s son. You are God’s daughter. I want you to turn to the person to your left and say “I’m God’s child.”

I know of a man who was a Catholic priest who belonged to a religious order that on the first day of Lent, on Ash Wednesday, would sit in his room and whip himself with a leather belt for all of his many sins. The other brothers in his religious community would do the same. He was amazed at how hard the brother next door was hitting himself and actually began to worry that he was really going to hurt himself so he peaked through a key hole only to find that he was sitting in a chair smoking a cigarette reading a book. What he heard was coming from a tape recorder.

Is this what God looks for in us? To fake things? To hit ourselves and beat ourselves up all the time because we aren’t good enough?

Not according to Ephesians. God has blessed us with every spiritual blessing. We are God’s children.

I want to tell you about a spiritual breakthrough I had a few years ago. I was on a retreat at the Society of Saint John the Evangelist in Boston, Massachusetts. I shared with my spiritual director what was going on in my interior, spiritual life. After I’d talked for 30 minutes or so the room became silent and he sat there. Then his face broke out with the biggest smile and he said, “Tommy. God loves you. God loves you more than you’ll ever realize. More than anyone. God has called you to be a priest in God’s church and your calling flows out of that deep love that God has for you. Never forget that.”

I believe what this letter to the Ephesians is all about is to help us remember that. That we are deeply loved children of God and that God has blessed us with every blessing. So the next time you’re at a meeting and thinking what an idiot the person sitting across the table is – remember that they’re a child of God just as much as you are and they’re your brother or sister in Christ. If we treated everyone this way imagine what could happen in this place.

So your homework for the next month, yes I said month, is to take a post it note and put it on your bathroom mirror so every morning you see the words “I am a child of God.” But remember if you’re a child of God so is everyone else – treat them like it! Amen.

The Rev'd Thomas S. Rogers, III

Associate Rector

All Saints Episcopal Church

Frederick, Maryland

Year B // Proper 10 Sermon

Link to audio: http://www.box.net/shared/g2i7hvunq3